Oh, the Holidays. They can mean so many different things to so many different people. It can be about the warmth and comfort of being with family. It can be about making your own traditions with your own unconventional, modern family. It can be about just getting through it with a carefully planned, tactical playbook, [read more]
Turning Over A New Leaf
“What was I thinking?” One of the things I really need to get better about is my impulsive nature. I have a tendency to jump right in without thinking things through. This applies to anything, really. For instance, last year, my wife and I were casually chatting over breakfast about kittens and she said “What [read more]
Is Your Relationship Role Right For You?
I never thought of myself as a “housewife” or “housewife material” but lo and behold, here I am with a basket full of clean laundry that needs to be folded, a dishwasher that needs emptying, a bathroom that needs to be cleaned and dinner that needs addressing. So, basically, this makes me a housewife. Doesn’t [read more]
Summer Lovin’
Tis the season for Pride Festivals, lesbian camping festivals, outdoor concerts & more because the big gay SUMMER months are HERE! Grab your bag, sunglasses, flip flops, sun screen & tickets for a non-stop thrill ride into parades, marches, music, grass, mud, sunshine, rain storms, friends and…quite possibly….LOVE! Are you ready for it? More importantly, [read more]
Who Are You Dressing For?
I recently had a talk with someone and we were discussing how women can become complacent or even misguided about their style or “look”. This person mentioned that “most women dress for someone else and not for themselves”. After we finished the discussion, I couldn’t help thinking more and more about what she said and [read more]
It All Comes Back to Balance
There is no doubt that we live in a society now that demands…well…basically …everything: a thriving career, a fulfilling social life, strong family ties, happy relationships, good health, solid finances, passions, creativity and physical activity- just to name a few things. But how on earth are we supposed to maintain those things with only 24 [read more]
Would I Date Me?
Sometimes life comes along and snaps you out of your misery pit and you end up asking yourself, “Would I date me?” Once when I was in my late 30’s, totally single, and working as a medical case manager for a big insurance company, I found myself in a situation. Being a lesbian with a soft [read more]