I never thought I’d ever consider marrying – that marriage bells would ring for me. And at my age of 62 I could not imagine another huge life change. But then I had left 37 years of life connected to the church, had tried out a couple of administrative jobs, and finally landed as a life [read more]
About Michael Parise
Michael Parise is a highly sensitive person who has the emotional “wiring” and insight to promote soulful healing. He does so through his Life & Spirit coaching, spiritual direction, and integrated energy work. His keen intuition, deep empathy, and spiritual consciousness enable him to discover hidden factors in our lives that need attention. Michael’s training and experience in pastoral ministry and spiritual formation gives him access to the mysteries of the soul. He has assisted hundreds of people to cope with being overwhelmed by life, to find stronger connections with themselves, others, and God, and to address the inner critics that can sabotage happiness. Michael works in person as well as on the phone.
Real Men Are Enablers
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Dysfunction usually involves two parties: the person with the self-destructive behavior and a second person who encourages or makes easier the negative or self-destructive behavior. We call this second person an enabler. Most enablers realize too late that they’ve been sucked into an ever-increasing downward spiral centered on a sick dynamic. And contrary to popular [read more]
Is it possible to be LGBT and spiritual?
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Being aware of my gayness and my coming out later in life has added an important dimension to my spirituality. As a Catholic priest I had always been a spiritual person, inspired by nature, by the heroic virtues I saw in others, and by my religious faith. When I left ministry five years ago and [read more]
Finding Miracles in Relationships
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When miracles in relationships happen they aren’t always what we expect. Roberto Rossellini’s Voyage to Italy recently aired on TCM. Made in 1954, it stars George Sanders and Rossellini’s wife, Ingrid Bergman. The story takes a slice out of the life of a wealthy English couple traveling in Naples, Italy to take possession of a [read more]
Freedom from Narcissism
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Narcissism if often part of family life. Last year my older brother Ted and I had a major falling-out. It brought to mind a moment when as a parish priest I was hearing the confession of a parishioner who felt guilty around his alcoholic sister. Jim spoke of his frustration that she was so anti-social and [read more]
Courage, Clarity, and Dating
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I came out rather later in life and found asking someone I liked out for a date to be daunting. I have a serious hearing problem that makes group conversation difficult and so I tend to feel lost in the chatter. Also having someone to myself for a few hours is like a satisfying meal [read more]
Heroes…Deep Down
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Deep Down Most of Us Want To Be Heroes Not the public kind of heroes with accolades, awards, or medals… Just the knowledge that we’ve done right for ourselves and others, that we’ve stretched beyond our comfort level to make the world a better place. For most men, gay or straight, wanting to be heroic [read more]
