About Rick Clemons

Rick Clemons is a life changer, motivator, guide, mentor, and inspiring life coach, and author of the soon to be released, “Frankly My Dear I’m Gay.” He’s on a mission; guiding gay men to find their own voice, love deeply, work passionately, and live powerfully without regrets.

Fight Fair Without Fighting At All!

“And then you said I was worthless in 1974 and that made me feel like you didn’t love me, which you’re now proving once again!” Oy, the joys of a fight gone out of control! We’ve all been there. Experienced those moments where we feel like we’re in perpetual fight, spinning down into the depths   [read more]

If Your LGBT Relationship Sucks, Then Quit Working So Hard At It!

Maybe it’s because I turned 50+ this month and I just don’t have the patience any longer for whiners. Or it could be that I know, once the pain becomes less to get out of a crappy relationship then to stay in one, then the complaining will stop. It’s neither here nor there. When you   [read more]

5 Ways To End Procrastination In Your Relationship

It’s been said, “Procrastination is like masturbation. You’re only screwing yourself.” Now that I have your attention, let’s move on and get to the heart of why procrastination is killing your relationship and how to fix it. Like it or not, and just my rough guess, I’d say that 95% of relationships are at risk,   [read more]

Let Freedom Ring In Your Relationship

Let Freedom Ring In Your Relationship It’s July. For those of us in the United States that means we celebrate our freedom and once again honor the day our forefathers declared us independent from British rule. At least that’s the way I remember from US History class, which seems eons ago. Ah, and Look at   [read more]

Keeping Score: Sex – 0, Intimacy – 0, Love – 0, Relationship – 0

Final score or keeping score in sex, intimacy, love and relationships… We’re doing it. Love is a battlefield, a game, a journey, all centered around the big “R” word – RELATIONSHIP. We all, for the most part, desire to be in one. Primping, preening, finding just the right things to say, to land Mr. or   [read more]

Coming Out: Leave me Alone, I’m Staying In The Closet – Sort Of!

Can we be honest with one another? Coming out is a challenge, and not an experience that most of us would love to repeat ever again in our lives. Yet, in reality, we never stop coming out. But, I’m sure for most of you that last statement was like preaching to the choir. However, in   [read more]

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