Learning How To Date – And How To Love

The Long, Hard Search for Ms. Right by Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D. & Michelle Murrain, Ph.D. “I just can’t seem to find someone,” Kaye told us, her eyes filling with tears. “I’ve got my list of must-haves and deal-breakers, and there’s just no one out there who’s a perfect fit – or at least, no one   [read more]

5 Things To Know About Lesbian Online Dating

5 Things to Know About Lesbian Online Dating Finding your great match for most lesbians isn’t about sorting through the copious amount of single and amazing women you can meet in your neighborhood, town or city. Often it feels more like waiting forever at a train station. And hoping eventually that at least one interesting   [read more]

Let Freedom Ring In Your Relationship

Let Freedom Ring In Your Relationship It’s July. For those of us in the United States that means we celebrate our freedom and once again honor the day our forefathers declared us independent from British rule. At least that’s the way I remember from US History class, which seems eons ago. Ah, and Look at   [read more]

Courage, Clarity, and Dating

I came out rather later in life and found asking someone I liked out for a date to be daunting. I have a serious hearing problem that makes group conversation difficult and so I tend to feel lost in the chatter. Also having someone to myself for a few hours is like a satisfying meal   [read more]

Can Bisexuals Really Be Monogamous?

One of the myths that bisexuals hear a lot is this belief that since a bisexual person is attracted to both genders, they must be unable to be in relationship with just one person, because then they wouldn’t be getting all their needs met. This can be a difficult myth to overcome and can get in   [read more]

It All Comes Back to Balance

There is no doubt that we live in a society now that demands…well…basically …everything: a thriving career, a fulfilling social life, strong family ties, happy relationships, good health, solid finances, passions, creativity and physical activity- just to name a few things. But how on earth are we supposed to maintain those things with only 24   [read more]

Online Dating and Catfishing

If you’re single you’re doing online dating and one kind of person to watch out for is catfishing. Never heard of the term? Let me help you out. Catfishing happens when an individual poses as someone who tells you that you are the most perfect person on the face of the earth. They can’t imagine not having   [read more]

Put Yourself On A Dating Time Out

  You desperately want a boyfriend.  You have profiles on OkCupid, Scruff, Grindr, Timbr, and every other gay dating app known to man, and check them frequently. You’re on a date at least once a week, and out at the clubs the rest of the time trying to hook up with someone. Yet for all   [read more]

Would I Date Me?

Sometimes life comes along and snaps you out of your misery pit and you end up asking yourself, “Would I date me?” Once when I was in my late 30’s, totally single, and working as a medical case manager for a big insurance company, I found myself in a situation. Being a lesbian with a soft   [read more]

Three Essential Yoga Poses to Love Up Your Relationship

For most folks, Yoga is something that you go to once or twice a week to feel relaxed, more bendy, or because your partner tells you to (!). But, as a certified Yoga geek, I’m here to tell you that there is so much more to Yoga. In fact, Yoga poses can be used as   [read more]

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