January is the month for setting goals and intentions for the new year. It can also be about learning to set new boundaries. Some people think of boundaries as negative things, ways of keeping people out of something…but really, boundaries are for protecting yourself, they’re there to keep you and yours safe and sacred, even [read more]
Finding Miracles in Relationships
When miracles in relationships happen they aren’t always what we expect. Roberto Rossellini’s Voyage to Italy recently aired on TCM. Made in 1954, it stars George Sanders and Rossellini’s wife, Ingrid Bergman. The story takes a slice out of the life of a wealthy English couple traveling in Naples, Italy to take possession of a [read more]
Let Freedom Ring In Your Relationship
Let Freedom Ring In Your Relationship It’s July. For those of us in the United States that means we celebrate our freedom and once again honor the day our forefathers declared us independent from British rule. At least that’s the way I remember from US History class, which seems eons ago. Ah, and Look at [read more]
Are you creating community or looking for love?
One of the challenges for gay men, lesbians and others in the LGBT spectrum is that our close friends can also be candidates for intimate relationships. Because we draw friends and life partners from the same pool, there is a much greater risk of disappointment and unpleasant experiences .While straight people can have friends of [read more]