Put Yourself On A Dating Time Out

  You desperately want a boyfriend.  You have profiles on OkCupid, Scruff, Grindr, Timbr, and every other gay dating app known to man, and check them frequently. You’re on a date at least once a week, and out at the clubs the rest of the time trying to hook up with someone. Yet for all   [read more]

4 Stories We Tell Ourselves In Relationships

Who doesn’t love a good story? Last fall, as I was browsing the Free section on my Amazon Kindle, I came across a story I hadn’t read since childhood: The Velveteen Rabbit. On a Saturday morning, I decided to read it out loud with my boyfriend, Sergio. It didn’t take long, but I was getting   [read more]

Three Essential Yoga Poses to Love Up Your Relationship

For most folks, Yoga is something that you go to once or twice a week to feel relaxed, more bendy, or because your partner tells you to (!). But, as a certified Yoga geek, I’m here to tell you that there is so much more to Yoga. In fact, Yoga poses can be used as   [read more]

Stepping Into Gay Intimacy Through Eye Contact

by Josh Hersh “Take ten minutes this weekend to quietly look into your partner’s eyes.” Reading through an e-mail from my boyfriend, that one sentence made my chest tighten. Stare into his eyes? For ten minutes? Living together, I see my boyfriend as he wakes up, before going to bed, and when he arrives at our   [read more]

Secrets for Becoming a Gay ‘Rockstar’ Super-Couple

by Brian Rzepczynski, DHS, MSW The results of a recent 2-year study by social scientists at The Open University, funded by The Economic and Social Research Council, have just been released. The “Enduring Love? Couple Relationships in the 21st Century” project reveals that gay couples report greater relationship quality and satisfaction than their heterosexual counterparts.   [read more]