What’s really important…

Last weekend I got a scare. Luckily it wasn’t a bad one but it did make me “adjust my perspective” about what is really important in my life. I was home watching our littlest and watering the house plants when my partner called me. We usually text each other and she’d already texted saying she   [read more]

Finding Miracles in Relationships

When miracles in relationships happen they aren’t always what we expect. Roberto Rossellini’s Voyage to Italy recently aired on TCM.  Made in 1954, it stars George Sanders and Rossellini’s wife, Ingrid Bergman. The story takes a slice out of the life of a wealthy English couple traveling in Naples, Italy to take possession of a   [read more]

Would I Date Me?

Sometimes life comes along and snaps you out of your misery pit and you end up asking yourself, “Would I date me?” Once when I was in my late 30’s, totally single, and working as a medical case manager for a big insurance company, I found myself in a situation. Being a lesbian with a soft   [read more]

4 Stories We Tell Ourselves In Relationships

Who doesn’t love a good story? Last fall, as I was browsing the Free section on my Amazon Kindle, I came across a story I hadn’t read since childhood: The Velveteen Rabbit. On a Saturday morning, I decided to read it out loud with my boyfriend, Sergio. It didn’t take long, but I was getting   [read more]

Be Okay With Yourself as a Lesbian

by Denise Warner-Gregory Getting to the point where you can be okay with your self as a lesbian is a process. I tend to cut people a lot of slack when they’re in their twenties because you’re entitled to make some mistakes during that time: financial, job-related, inter-personal and romantic mistakes are highly likely because you   [read more]

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