The Intimacy Short Circuit

From 15 years to 1… I’d been with my previous partner for close to 15 years. This article isn’t really about that relationship. I just mention it to illustrate how out of touch I am when it comes to new relationships. I expected my current partner to just “know” that I hate mushrooms, am a   [read more]

Finding Miracles in Relationships

When miracles in relationships happen they aren’t always what we expect. Roberto Rossellini’s Voyage to Italy recently aired on TCM.  Made in 1954, it stars George Sanders and Rossellini’s wife, Ingrid Bergman. The story takes a slice out of the life of a wealthy English couple traveling in Naples, Italy to take possession of a   [read more]

Keeping Score: Sex – 0, Intimacy – 0, Love – 0, Relationship – 0

Final score or keeping score in sex, intimacy, love and relationships… We’re doing it. Love is a battlefield, a game, a journey, all centered around the big “R” word – RELATIONSHIP. We all, for the most part, desire to be in one. Primping, preening, finding just the right things to say, to land Mr. or   [read more]

Two fun and easy ways to pleasure your partner

Wouldn’t you like to know two easy ways to pleasure your partner? If I had my way, everyone would do Yoga, and all couples would practice partner Yoga together as a way to deepen their connection with each other and, well, work on the sh*t. And I think I’d prescribe a Yoga retreat at least   [read more]

3 Easy Ways to Add More Sizzle to Your Sex Life

Do You Need to Add More Sizzle To Your Sex Life? Have you lost some of the sizzle and sexual energy in your relationship?  Do you wish you could enjoy a deeper connection and feel the same sparks and energy you used to when you first got together? Creating More Intimacy Creating a deeply connected   [read more]

Stepping Into Gay Intimacy Through Eye Contact

by Josh Hersh “Take ten minutes this weekend to quietly look into your partner’s eyes.” Reading through an e-mail from my boyfriend, that one sentence made my chest tighten. Stare into his eyes? For ten minutes? Living together, I see my boyfriend as he wakes up, before going to bed, and when he arrives at our   [read more]

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