“Pass the Carbs, Please.”

Oh, the Holidays. They can mean so many different things to so many different people.  It can be about the warmth and comfort of being with family. It can be about making your own traditions with your own unconventional, modern family. It can be about just getting through it with a carefully planned, tactical playbook,   [read more]

Stepping Into Gay Intimacy Through Eye Contact

by Josh Hersh “Take ten minutes this weekend to quietly look into your partner’s eyes.” Reading through an e-mail from my boyfriend, that one sentence made my chest tighten. Stare into his eyes? For ten minutes? Living together, I see my boyfriend as he wakes up, before going to bed, and when he arrives at our   [read more]